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Articles, discussions, and resources about the intersection of culture and high sensitivity. Exploring how we can use high sensitivity and creativity to change the world around us, and the impact of an insensitive world on our collective human nervous system.

Exploiting Trust With Storytelling Frameworks

Fri May 15, 2026

The moral of The Boy Who Cried Wolf is generally that liars aren’t believed even when they tell the truth. But I wonder if that…

There’s No One To Blame But You – The True Power of Positive Thinking

Fri May 8, 2026

Like other self-help gurus of the time, Norman Vincent Peal targeted the lonely travelling salesman. But his message was also marketed to corporate executives, who…

Finding Success Close-In

Mon May 4, 2026

How do you tend to define success? Is it an external outcome you pursue, or is it something personal you feel ‘close in’? I’ve been…

Is Coaching Really a Pyramid Scheme?

Fri April 3, 2026

With increasing regularity, I see posts on social media criticising coaching as a pyramid scheme or defending it against such accusations. As people tend to…

The Religion of Positive Thinking

Tue March 24, 2026

The Power of Positive Thinking promised liberation from feelings of inferiority and self-doubt. But did it simply deliver us a new set of demands and…

Does it Feel Like Winning a Silver or Losing a Gold? (A Ridiculous Question?)

Fri February 20, 2026

In this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, I explore something that happened yesterday. I had another episode planned for this week, but I put…

Why Is It So Hard to Say “I Don’t Know”?

Fri February 13, 2026

“How do you tend to respond when you do not know?” We had this question in our Journal Circle a couple of weeks ago. It’s…

People Keep Asking Me to Cancel Their Subscription To This App

Fri February 6, 2026

Around Black Friday last year, I started getting strange emails from people asking me to cancel their subscription. Only, they weren’t from Haven members, and…

David Bowie’s Search for Life, Death and God (with Peter Ormerod)

Fri January 16, 2026

Peter Ormerod is a journalist and writer who has written extensively about culture and faith for The Guardian, and he is also an arts editor…

Choose Your Own Price Coaching – What I’ve Learned and Why I Still Do It

Sun December 21, 2025

I realised earlier this week that it’s been three years since I first adopted a “choose your own price” model for Pick The Lock coaching…

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