Are You Looking For Your People?
It looks like you’re looking for somewhere to connect with people who truly “get” you. You're in the right place!
Based on your answers, it seems you’re seeking a community where you can share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgment or pressure. A place where you don’t have to explain or justify yourself, whether it’s because of your preferences, needs as a highly sensitive person or introvert, or the way you perceive and experience the world. And a place where you can hear and learn from other people whose experiences come from a familiar foundation.
Oh, and maybe you'd like to give your sense of humour somewhere to enjoy itself, too?
Why Join Us in The Haven?
- You Can Remove Your Mask: Ever feel like you are performing a role to appease or impress others? You don't have to do that here. Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of being misunderstood or unfairly judged...and your silly side will be very welcome, if/when it's ready to come out and play!
- Co-Regulation: Our forums and live gatherings can help bring your nervous system to a state of calm connection (no hype, no algorithms, no clickbait - lots of comfortable silence, meaningful conversation, and space to explore)
- Circles, Not Stages: Inspired by the image of a kota (a circular refuge) we gather together as equals, sharing without the pressure to perform or conform. I would love to spend time with you in this setting!
- Lightness and Humour: There is always potential for detours into unpredictable and absurd landscapes, underpinned by a contagious laughter and sense of playfulness - humour is often the number one tool we have as gentle rebels navigating our crazy world
What You’ll Find Here
- Social Timeline: There is a familiar social media style timeline for sharing thoughts, updates, and resources to encourage, inform, and entertain others. I love connecting with people in this way.
- Forum: Dig into deeper, meandering conversations that you can return to and build on over time.
- Live Events: Join me for our regular gatherings where we hangout on Zoom, whether you want to actively participate or simply absorb the gentle, supportive energy - replays are often available for those who can't make it live
Is Now the Right Time for You?
The Haven is for you if:
- You’re looking for a space to connect with others who truly get where you are coming from and why you would feel how you do.
- You want to replenish your resilience and build the courage to engage with the world on your terms.
- You value a community that prioritises meaningful relationships over arguments and provocation.
- You could use a dose of laughter with a group of gentle rebels
If now feels like the right time to join, I would love to welcome you home and show you around.