The Highly Sensitive Trait

highly sensitive people

Explore, learn, and grow in the light of your sensitivity

What is High Sensitivity?

Are you confused by the idea of "highly sensitive people" or looking to learn more about it? You're in the right place!

Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is commonly refers to those with Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS - the term used in scientific research).

HSPs have nervous systems that process sensory stimuli more deeply and react more intensely than average. However, responses to the same stimuli can vary significantly between individuals.

Sensitivity is a natural trait that exists alongside other personal characteristics, and understanding it can help us navigate life more effectively.

Unsure if you have sensory processing sensitivity? Use the self-test on SensitivityResearch to explore more. For a more comprehensive result, the SPS-Q Monitor is a good option (available in multiple languages).

Why Do We Care About This Stuff?

Why do we talk about high sensitivity in The Haven?

What inspired me to go from writing about music, songwriting, and creativity to high sensitivity and the nervous system? How the heck did that happen?

I share more in this video...

The HSP Owner's Guide

Do you ever wish an instruction manual existed for your (or other people's) highly sensitive temperament?

Here you go...

The HSP Owner's Guide (Dive Deeper Articles)

These posts unpack and elaborate on elements of the HSP Owner's Guides. I will be adding more over time.

Hypervigilance and High Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Overstimulation and High Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Moral Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Social Sensitivity and The Highly Sensitive Person (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Differential Susceptibility (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Mental Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Physical Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Rewriting Our Story Through The Lens of Sensitivity

One of the first things I instinctively did when I understood myself through the lens of high sensitivity was to go through a creative writing process...

Rewriting the old story gives us a way of reconnecting with who we are in the experiences and decisions we might have lost or neglected ourselves. It allows us to identify why we might have made particular choices and the autonomic nervous system context surrounding reactions in certain situations.

In essence, rewriting through sensitivity is about healing the story we hold within; allowing our sensitivity to rise and become part of the whole it belongs to. By reframing, rewriting, and reconciling, we invite the past into the present in a newly integrated way, so our many parts can work together.

Reframing helps us develop new and fresh perspectives on past experiences. We might remember times when something in us felt out of place. Maybe something was going well, and someone poured a cold bucket of water on it.

Reframing invites healing and forgiveness (of ourselves and others). Forgiveness can allow us to let go of the grip our unprocessed stories might have on our present freedom.

It can even be a fun, humourous, and playful way to think about who we are in light of our sensitivities!

A Reframing Practice

You've read the articles, taken the tests, and watched the videos about high sensitivity. You recognise yourself in the descriptions. Now what? This is an important question to consider because it's easy to get stuck in knowledge-hoarding or even regrets and wishes that you'd learned about it earlier in life.

That's why I recommend taking a creative approach to embracing and integrating your sensitivity to collaborate with it (rather than fight against it) as you write the next chapter of your story.

VIDEO | Rewriting Our Story Through The Lens of Sensitivity

AUDIO | The Reframing Practice

AUDIO | Instrumental Music

The Gentle Rebel Book

The Gentle Rebel book was originally shared in 2014. I had written it as a way to creatively (and playfully) process life through the lens of high sensitivity.

I hope you find some encouragement from it to inspire you on your journey.

PDF Version

Audio Version

The Gentle Rebel Book (Companion Videos)

I revisited the book in 2018 when I re-shared it on The Haven. I made the following videos at the time. They focus on different senses and experiences through my highly sensitive nervous system, with a few practical nuggets and titbits along the way!

Noise

Texture

Smell

Transmarginal Inhibition

Lighting

Being a Gentle Rebel

Sensitivity Archive

The full archive of articles, discussions, and resources to raise awareness and understanding of sensory processing sensitivity to help us proactively design life in partnership with our natural temperament.