highly sensitive people

Explore, learn, and grow in the light of your sensitivity

What is High Sensitivity?

Are you confused by the idea of "highly sensitive people" or looking to learn more about it? You're in the right place!

Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is commonly refers to those with Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS - the term used in scientific research).

HSPs have nervous systems that process sensory stimuli more deeply and react more intensely than average. However, responses to the same stimuli can vary significantly between individuals.

Sensitivity is a natural trait that exists alongside other personal characteristics, and understanding it can help us navigate life more effectively.

Unsure if you have sensory processing sensitivity? Use the self-test on SensitivityResearch to explore more. For a more comprehensive result, the SPS-Q Monitor is a good option (available in multiple languages).

Why Do We Care About This Stuff?

Why do we talk about high sensitivity in The Haven?

What inspired me to go from writing about music, songwriting, and creativity to high sensitivity and the nervous system? How the heck did that happen?

I share more in this video...

The HSP Owner's Guide

Do you ever wish an instruction manual existed for your (or other people's) highly sensitive temperament?

Here you go...

Rewriting Our Story Through The Lens of Sensitivity

One of the first things I instinctively did when I understood myself through the lens of high sensitivity was to go through a creative writing process...

Rewriting the old story gives us a way of reconnecting with who we are in the experiences and decisions we might have lost or neglected ourselves. It allows us to identify why we might have made particular choices and the autonomic nervous system context surrounding reactions in certain situations.

In essence, rewriting through sensitivity is about healing the story we hold within; allowing our sensitivity to rise and become part of the whole it belongs to. By reframing, rewriting, and reconciling, we invite the past into the present in a newly integrated way, so our many parts can work together.

Reframing helps us develop new and fresh perspectives on past experiences. We might remember times when something in us felt out of place. Maybe something was going well, and someone poured a cold bucket of water on it.

Reframing invites healing and forgiveness (of ourselves and others). Forgiveness can allow us to let go of the grip our unprocessed stories might have on our present freedom.

It can even be a fun, humourous, and playful way to think about who we are in light of our sensitivities!

A Reframing Practice

You've read the articles, taken the tests, and watched the videos about high sensitivity. You recognise yourself in the descriptions. Now what? This is an important question to consider because it's easy to get stuck in knowledge-hoarding or even regrets and wishes that you'd learned about it earlier in life.

That's why I recommend taking a creative approach to embracing and integrating your sensitivity to collaborate with it (rather than fight against it) as you write the next chapter of your story.

The Gentle Rebel Book

The Gentle Rebel book was originally shared in 2014. I had written it as a way to creatively (and playfully) process life through the lens of high sensitivity.

I hope you find some encouragement from it to inspire you on your journey.

The Gentle Rebel Book (Companion Videos)

I revisited the book in 2018 when I re-shared it on The Haven. I made the following videos at the time. They focus on different senses and experiences through my highly sensitive nervous system, with a few practical nuggets and titbits along the way!

Sensitivity Archive

The full archive of articles, discussions, and resources to raise awareness and understanding of sensory processing sensitivity to help us proactively design life in partnership with our natural temperament.

Is Something Holding You Back?

Sun March 29, 2026

Join me on Saturday April 4th 2026 for a mini-zine making workshop around this theme of Expressing Your True Colours. What stops people expressing themselves…

Finding Ourselves in the Fog of a Hundred Shades of Beige

Wed March 18, 2026

If you’ve looked up stuff about the trait of high sensitivity online, you’ve probably been confronted by a sea of pastel colours and a hundred…

HSP Colour Swatches

Wed March 11, 2026

Are you a highly sensitive person? Do you ever hide or tone down your colours for others? As we begin our ‘true colours’ season, I…

The Challenges of Measuring High Sensitivity (with Andrew May)

Fri November 7, 2025

What are the challenges when it comes to objectively measuring high sensitivity in people? In this week’s episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast , I…

A Book For Sensitive Children (with Judith Orloff)

Tue October 7, 2025

In this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast , I speak with psychiatrist and author Dr Judith Orloff about her new book, The Highly Sensitive…

Awareness and Alertness: How the Soundtrack of Our Nervous System Shapes Our Reality

Sat September 20, 2025

In the main episode this week, we explored the links between hypervigilance and high sensitivity. In this supplementary private podcast, we are digging deeper into…

Hypervigilance and High Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Sat September 20, 2025

In this week’s episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, we look at the relationship between sensory processing sensitivity and hypervigilance. As we finish our journey…

Overstimulation and High Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Fri August 22, 2025

This post elaborates on the ‘overstimulation’ section of The HSP Owner’s Guide. In this week’s episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, we look at the…

Why Common Self-Help Concepts Might Not Work For Highly Sensitive People

Fri August 15, 2025

In this week’s Gentle Rebel Podcast, I introduced a new project where I’ll be exploring the history of self-help . Where it came from, the…

Moral Sensitivity (The HSP Owner’s Guide)

Fri July 11, 2025

This post elaborates on the ‘moral sensitivity’ section of The HSP Owner’s Guide. Have you ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of the world’s…

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