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The Book Club

An archive of forum threads, session replays, and articles about the books we've been reading in the community.

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Posts about the books we've looked at together in the community book club and standalone book reviews/recommendations shared by Haven members.

Learning To Listen To The Autonomic Nervous System

Mon September 11, 2023

Connection is made possible through our openness and ability to listen. We might recognise whether or not we are engaged in listening by noticing our state – are we reflecting or reacting?

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Describing Autonomic Landscapes In Our Own Words

Tue September 5, 2023

At the end of 2023, we explored Anchored by Deb Dana in The Haven Book Club. This post is a reflection on Chapter Two, Traveling…

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Befriending Your Highly Sensitive Nervous System

Tue August 29, 2023

The fast-paced demands of modern life are often out of step with our internal and natural social rhythms.

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Anchored (Book Club)

Fri August 18, 2023

“When the inner workings of our biology are a mystery, we feel as if we’re at the mercy of unknown, unexplainable, and unpredictable experiences. Once…

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The Wisdom of Insecurity (Book Club)

Tue May 30, 2023

Seventy years after it was written, The Wisdom of Insecurity still carries a message for our time—this age of anxiety where things often feel urgent,…

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To Live in the Here and Now (Life is Music)

Wed April 26, 2023

Life is like a piece of music. The goal is not to reach the end. It’s to move in the rhythm and melody of the…

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No One Lives At The Centre of The World

Tue March 28, 2023

Narcissism is underpinned by a sense of entitlement to success, power, and control over others. Some people place themselves at the centre of the world…

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Holding Boundaries and Letting Go Of Other People’s Tasks

Tue February 28, 2023

What does it mean to let go of other people’s tasks? This is one of the core questions in The Courage To Be Disliked, which…

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Interpersonal Relationship Problems and The Social Shadow

Tue January 31, 2023

Humans are complex social beings. We are wired for connection and belonging to survive. Yet our subjective consciousness and individuality present all manner of interpersonal…

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Does The Past Determine Our Future, or Can We Change It?

Tue January 3, 2023

What factors determine who we become and how our lives turn out? Does the past dictate the future? What does it mean to choose happiness?…

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